10 Tips for Bridesmaids

I've been in my fair share of weddings.  The first and the last one were polar opposites because I've learned so much along the way about being a perfect bridesmaid.  Here are my tips for you: tips to be the best bridesmaid and maid of honor
  • Bachelorette parties do not require strippers. For my first bachelorette party, we went to a Hunk-o-mania copycat show.  We paid $40 to get in and it was the most unpleasant, disgusting experience for all of us.  Haven't included one of them since, and they've been 10x better.
  • It's not about you.  I missed my sisters first wedding dress appointment.  She's super spontaneous - booked the appointment without consulting my availability and ended up buying a dress that day!  I was so pissed at first that I wasn't a part of it.  Then I realized, it's not about me.
  • It's okay to say no.  Being a bridesmaid = spending a whole lot of money.  You need to buy a dress, pay for alterations, gifts up the wazoo, contribute to the bridal shower, and shell out cash to ensure a kickass bachelorette party.  It isn't a cheap commitment.  If you're not the best of family/friends or can't afford it you can graciously decline.
  • You can't research a Maid of Honor speech.  Well you can, but it's not going to get you very far.  I spent countless HOURS watching speech after speech on You Tube.  I was inspired by the wedding parodies, funny one liners, etc.  However, the speech needs to come from the heart.  You won't know what to write by researching those who have come before.
  • You are responsible for starting the party! If that dance floor is not started, it is your duty, to shake that booty.
  • You're about to get a whole lot closer to your BFF.  That's right, you'll be taking field trips to the bathroom together, holding up her 40 pound dress and listening to her tinkle (if you're lucky).
  • There's a proper way to hold the bouquet.  Man, I am on a rhyming kick today.  In all seriousness though, if you don't want to f' up the pictures then hold your bouquet right in front of your lower belly with the pretty flowers pointed outwards not in towards you.  Oh, and be careful of drips! Ruined a few pictures with water stains from the flowers.  My bad.
  • Props are necessary at a bachelorette party. I don't care if the bride to be doesn't want a penis straw.  You should always have them.  It marks your group as a bachelorette party and people are a lot nicer, outgoing, and forgiving when you act a fool.  Just make sure you're not whipping them out at family friendly restaurants.
  • Get those alterations done ASAP.  It gives the bride one less thing to worry about.
  • Divide and conquer - You can't do it all, nor should you have to.  The bride picked a lovely team of people who would do anything for her - so let them.  Everyone can contribute to ideas, party stuff, and fun!
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